Baldoni's Epigraphs

In his book, Lead By Example, John Baldoni start each chapter with a great epigraph.  Here are two examples.

On Courage:  "So much of leadership is about drawing a line in the sane and standing behind it.  Such decisions require fortitude, strength of character, and plain old guts."

On Grace:  "Call it elan, suaveness, or simple confidence; all these words describe a single attribute--grace.  Leaders need to maintain grace in good times and especially in bad.  A leader with grace has a calming effect."

Good Quotes 2014

"It's important that we focus more on what we need to be that on what we need to do."
--Max De Pree, Leadership Jazz

"People do not lack strength; they lack will."
--Victor Hugo

"To lead the people, walk behind them."
--Lao Tzu

In response to the question "Why do you play so long?"
"It took me that long to get it all in."
--John Coltrane


List of Questions
"There are four questions of value in life, Don Octavio. What is sacred? Of what is the spirit made? What is worth living for and what is worth dying for? The answer to each is the same. Only love." --Lord Byron

"The three questions: How many walkers have you have you killed? How many people have you killed? Why?" --Abraham Lincoln as Rick Grimes in "The Walking Dead"

Small Business Saturday Suggestions in Los Angeles

Here are a few suggestions for shopping on Small Business Saturday on 30 November in and around Los Angeles.

Artisan Fair
URBAN RADISH www.urban-radish.com, a farm-fresh neighborhood grocery store, Art Share LA, and the Academy of Handmade Artists and Supporters have combined forces to bring an Open-Air Market to the Arts District featuring talented artists/craftsman from our neighborhood. 

Join us on Saturday, November 30th from 9-2PM in the URBAN RADISH parking lot at 661 Imperial Street, Los Angeles, CA 90021.

https://www.facebook.com/events/252476958237358/


Book Stores

Last Book Store
http://lastbookstorela.com/
453 S. Spring St., Downtown Los Angeles

Skylight Books
http://www.skylightbooks.com/
1818 North Vermont Avenue, Los Feliz

Iliad Books
http://www.iliadbooks.com/zencart/
5400 Cahuenga Boulevard, North Hollywood

Book Soup
http://www.booksoup.com/
8818 Sunset Blvd. West Hollywood

Books on the Boulevard
http://www.booksontheblvd.com/
13551 Ventura Blvd., Sherman Oaks


Other Stores

Angel City Brewery
http://angelcitybrewery.com/
216 South Alameda St., Downtown Los Angeles

My Fair Lady Women's Fashion
http://www.shopmyfairlady.com/
6000 Reseda Blvd., Tarzana

Marie et Cie
http://www.marieetcie.com/
11704 Riverside Dr, Valley Village

Gopnik on perfect writing versus sincere storytelling: Moth

Adam Gopnik is a staff writer for The New Yorker magazine.  He has also given several talks at Moth events.  One story was recently featured on the Moth Radio Hour.

In the introduction to the story, Gopnik reflects about how telling stories on stage has affected his writing:

"I sensed in myself that I had become in some ways, and doubtless still am in every way, an unduly fancy writer. That the curlicues and ornamentation of erudition had begun to drown out my ability to simply tell a tale about what had happened. But I think writing is a business of perfection. You want every sentence to be as perfectly polished as you can possibly make it. Every sentence should glow and shine, have its own little balance and structure and charm. A story is not like that. A story can tolerate a lot of rough stuff in the course of it being related as long as what is being related is significant. You can’t write that way. Readers are unforgiving of imperfection. But don’t you think listeners are totally unforgiving of insincerity."

A link to the story:  http://www.prx.org/pieces/103186-1107-freddy-hubbard-charlie-ravioli-and-the-monk

Find Opportunities: Simple Cases

"Opportunity often comes disguised in the form of misfortune, or temporary defeat."
Napoleon Hill

Leaders often focus on the opportunity side of challenges.  Not all these cases are a major challenge or  major crisis.

Today, I missed my usual subway stop.  My first thought was to get off at the next stop, move to the opposite platform, and come back one stop.

Then I thought about which stop was next.  It was along the bus line that I transferred to, so I could still catch my usual bus, just one stop earlier.

Also, this was one of the only stops along the subway line that I have never used.  So, this small misfortune gave me a chance to explore a new transfer point.  Find the subway exit. Find the bus stop.  Look around the area.  

Leaders should look for the simple cases to practice finding the opportunities in a misfortune.  Travelling provides a lot of these, whether construction, traffic, detour, flight delay, wrong turn, wrong exit, or wrong stop.

LinkedIn Discussion: Leadership Book List

On th LinkedIn group Linked 2 Leadership, Michael Barker had a discussion "What's the best book on Leadership you've ever read?"

Here is a list of the books mentioned, in order of mention.

Culture Making by Andy Crouch
Launching a Leadership Revolution by Orrin Woodward and Chris Brady
Leadership is an Art by Max De Pree
An Integrative Approach to Leader Development: Connecting Adult Development, Identity, and Expertise by David Day, Michelle Harrison, and Stanley Halpin
Positive Intelligence by Shirzad Chamine
Leading At A Higher Level by Ken Blanchard
The Leadership Challenge by James Kouzes and Barry Posner
Developing the Leaders Around You by John Maxwell
On Becoming a Leader by Warren Bennis
Leadership Secrets of Attila the Hun by Wess Roberts
The Functions of the Executive by Chester Barnard
How to Grow Leaders by John Adair
Oxford Leadership Handbook by Michael G. Rumsey
Christian Reflections on the Leadership Challenge edited by John Kouzes, Barry Posner, and John Maxwell
Leadership From the Inside Out by Kevin Cashman
The 21 Irrefutable Laws of Leadership by John Maxwell
Leadership and the New Science: Discovering Order in A Chaotic World by Margaret Wheatley
The Effective Executive by Peter Drucker
Unbroken by Laura Hillenbrand
Flags of Our Fathers by James Bradley
Appreciative Leadership by Diana Whitney
Be My Best Boss - 11 management tips from your employees by Florian Borgeat
The Contrarian's Guide to Leadership by Steven Sample
Leadershift by Orrin Woodward & Oliver DeMille
Wild at Heart by John Eldredge
10 Must Reads on Leadership edited by Harvard Business Review
Five Levels of Leadership by John Maxwell
The Power of Now by Eckart Tolle Why We Make Mistakes by Joseph T. Hallinan
Blunder, Why Smart People Make Bad Decisions b Zachary Shore
Transforming Leadership by James MacGregor Burns
Linchpin by Seth Godin
Making Yourself Indispensable: The power of personal accountability by Mark Samuel
The Maverick Way by Bill Wilson and Richard Cheverton
Leadership Practices Inventory by John Kouzes
The 360 Degree Leader by John Maxwell
Cyropadeia by Xenophon
Maxims by Ptah-Hotep
The Prince by Nicolo Machiavelli
The Missing Piece in Leadership by Doug Krug
1776 by David McCullouth
Long Walk to Freedom by Nelson Mandela
The Radical Leap by Steve Farber
Le Petit Prince by Antoine de Saint-Exupery
Employees First Customers Second by Vineet Nayar
Winning by Jack Welch
The Bible
Primal Leadership by Daniel Goleman
Execution by Larry Bossidy and Ram Charan
The Art of Captaincy by Mike Brierley
Management of Organizational Behavior Leading Human Resources by Kenneth Blanchard and Paul Hersey What It Takes To Be Number One by Vince Lombardi Jr.
Up The Organization by Robert Townsend
Change The World by Robert Quinn
The PAUSE Principle by Kevin Cashman


Link to the LinkedIn discussion: http://www.linkedin.com/groupItem?view=&gid=77155&type=member&item=265443960&qid=24b45637-dc68-4840-b058-478eb7358638&trk=groups_search_item_list-0-b-ttl

Striving to Get Better: Stephen King and Larry Winget

I heard a good interview with Stephen King this morning on public radio.. There are a lot of connections between what King says in the interview and Larry Winget’s book, It's Called Work for a Reason!: Your Success Is Your Own Damn Fault. In particular, Winget talks about being good at your job and striving to get better.

In King’s interview
On his prolific production in writing: 
"There are plenty of people who have got lots of talent. This world is lousy with talent. The idea is to work that talent and try to get to be the best person that you can, given the limits of the talent that God gave you — or fate, or genetics or whatever name you want to put on it. A lot of people have suggested that the stuff that I do may be second-class because there's so much of it. My response to that is: I'm going to quit and be dead for a long time. This is the time that I've got, and I want to use it to the max. I really want to try and mine everything that I've got."

On blaming your situation and past:
(On why alcoholism plays such an important role in Doctor Sleep) "I was interested in [alcoholism] for a lot of different reasons. There does seem to be a genetic predisposition to alcoholism — that's the nature part. The nurture part is that if you grow up in a household where there's a lot of drinking, you have a tendency to become a drinker yourself. I wanted to see if it was possible to escape those things."

Link to radio story: http://www.npr.org/2013/09/24/223105565/stephen-king-on-getting-scared-nothing-like-your-first-time

Football Player Sherman on work ethic from father

During an interview, Seattle Seahawks Player Richard Sherman talked about learn about the value of hard work from his father.

From NBC Sports:
On his father, who gets up at 3:45 a.m. to work as a garbage man: “He’s shown me work, what it is to have a work ethic, a blue collar mentality. He’ll go to work, work for the eight or nine hours, and then he’ll come home and mow the lawn. He’ll miss some games before he’ll miss work because he works every holiday. He works every chance he has to put more food on the table. He does it. Those kinds of sacrifices you see throughout your whole life. It builds a certain rapport with you.”

Link to interview highlights on NBC Sports:  http://nbcsportsgrouppressbox.com/2013/09/15/notes-quotes-from-football-night-in-america-week-2/

Dedication: Third Parent and Fourth Child

In the first episode of Season One of Downton Abbey, the patriarch Lord Grantham is challenged by his mother about his dedication to the Downton Estate.  He gives a compelling answer.

"What do you think? I've given my life to Downton. I was born here, and I hope to die here. I claim no career beyond the nurture of this house and the estate. It is my third parent and my fourth child. Do I care about it? Yes, I do care!"

"Third Parent and Fourth Child" is a powerful way to explain one's dedication.

"Downton Abbey"
Produced by PBS Masterpiece Classics
Created by Julian Fellows
Episode Directed by Brian Percival
Air date 9 January 2011

Downton Abbey website:  http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/masterpiece/downtonabbey/

Dickinson poem with great sunset images

This poem was published in 1864 with the title "Sunset" and in 1891 with the title "The Juggler of Day."

Blazing in Gold and quenching in Purple
Leaping like Leopards to the Sky
Then at the feet of the old Horizon
Laying her spotting Face to die
Stooping as low as the Otter's Window
Touching the Roof and tinting the Barn
Kissing her Bonnet to the Meadow
And the Juggler is gone