Good Quotes 2016

"It isn't the sort of thing you ask questions about, because the answers are not usually answers you want to know."
     Margaret Atwood in The Handmaid's Tale

Tempered Radicals:  Cautious catalysts whose small victories, won over time, lay the groundwork for something grander.
     Kathryn Winters, as found in Leadership Challenge by Kouzes and Posner


Sunday's a day of rest. 
all important things should be forgotten. 
From "dead dog" by Charles Bukowski


"Those who will not risk cannot not win."
     John Paul Jones


"I knew I had more in the tank, and to be able to go out there and put the pieces together and pull it out."
    Michelle Carter, 2016 Gold Medalist


I decide that the only definition of 
Truth (which changes) 
is that it is that thing or act or 
belief which the crowd 
rejects 
From”people as flowers” by Charles Bukowski


Billy Strayhorn's "four major moral freedoms": freedom from hate, unconditionally; freedom from self-pity (even through all the pain and bad news); freedom from fear of possibly doing something that might possibly help another more than it might himself and freedom from the kind of pride that might make a man think that he was better than his brother or his neighbor.


From Crime and Punishment by Fyodor Dostoesky

"I know she would sooner go to the plantation as a negro slave, or live like a Latvian serf in a Baltic German household, than degrade her spirit and her moral feeling by a union with a man whom she does not respect and with whom she has nothing in common."

"Men of business are not shame-faced."


"I instantly love Naples.  Wild, raucous, noisy, dirty, balls-out Naples.  An anthill inside a rabbit warren, with all the exoticism of a Middle Eastern bazaar and a touch of New Orleans voodoo.  A tripped-out, dangerous and cheerful nuthouse."
From Eat, Prey, Love by Elizabeth Gilbert

Epigraphs from Eleven Rings by Phil Jackson

In his book Eleven Rings, Phil Jackson start each chapter with a great quote.  Here are several of them.


Life is a journey. Time is a river. The door is open.
 --Jim Butcher

 The greatest carver does the least cutting
--Lao-Tzu

 Don’t play the saxophone. Let it play you.
 --Charlie Parker

 And above all, watch with glittering eyes the whole world around you because the greatest secrets are always hidden in the most unlikely places. Those who don’t believe in magic will never find it
--Roald Dahl

 The way you do anything is the way you do everything.
--Tom Waits

 It is more fun to be a pirate than to join the Navy
--Steve Jobs

 When patterns are broken, new worlds emerge.
--Tuli Kuperberg

 To be trusted is a greater compliment than to be loved.
--George MacDonald

 Forget mistakes, forget failures, forget everything, except what you’re going to do now and do it. Today is your lucky day.
--Will Durant

 Connection is why we’re here. It’s what gives purpose and meaning to our lives.
--Brené Brown

 Fall down seven times. Stand up eight.
--Chinese proverb


Phil Jackson and Hugh Delehanty, Eleven Rings:  The Soul of Success (New York, The Penguin Press, 2013)

Malai Yousafzai and Neimoller's Poem--"They came for me"

One interesting fact that Malali Yousafzai mentions in her biography is that her father carried a copy of Martin Niemoller's poem

First they came for the communist,
and I didn't speak out because I wasn't a communist.
Then they came for the socialists
and I didn't speak out because I wasn't a socialist.
Then they came for the trade unionists,
and I didn't speak out because I wasn't a trade unionist.
Then they came for the Jews,
and I didn't speak out because I was not a Jew.
Then they came for the Catholics,
and I didn't speak out because I was not a Catholic.
Then they came for me,
and there was no one lift to speak for me.


As found in Malala Yousafzai, I am Malala (New York, Back Bay Books, 2013).

Good quotes 2015

(Describing a poor archery bow.)
"A knot-riddled branch broken from a cross-grained tree by a blind idiot in the middle of the night."
Robert Jordan in The Fires of Heaven


"You can't have the fruits without the roots."
--Stephen Covey in The Seven Habits of Highly Effective People


"Trust generates commitment; commitment fosters teamwork; and teamwork delivers results."
--Jon Gordon in Soup


"Art Share should always have at least one broken door knob because the last dollar should go to an artist."
--Rick Robinson at "Above the Streets"


"Jashinski’s work insists we do not overlook the everyday beauty that surrounds us, and for him, this beauty lies in life’s imperfections."
--Noah Jashinski, photographer, for Art Share LA exhibit


“If you want to make a documentary you should automatically go to the fiction, and if you want to nourish your fiction you have to come back to reality.”
--Jean-Luc Godard

Nurturing Image: Splint Supporting Plant--Perry

On her public radio show On Being, Krisa Tippett had a great conversation with Princeton Professor Imani Perry.  During that conversation they discussed a blog post that Perry made.  In that post, there was a great analogy for nurturing.

Have you ever seen a small plant that has a splint holding it up? Growers do that when the plant is precious, but the ground on which it sits isn’t quite right for that little green shoot to flourish.

Perry was referring to nurturing children, but this imag can be applied to any nurturing situation.


Conversation at On Being: http://www.onbeing.org/program/imani-perry-the-fabric-of-our-identity/6747

Blog Post at The Hairpin: http://thehairpin.com/2013/07/teaching-trayvon

Before Happiness by Achor: Practical Suggestions

In his book, Before Happiness, Shawn Achor provide numerous suggestions for sustaining positive change and achieving success.  On useful thing is that at the end of the chapters, he provides application suggestions.

Here are a few "Making it Practical " suggestions.

Diversity your meaning portfolio.  Write down a list right now of as many meaning markers in your life as you can. Aim for at least ten, and be specific.  Instead of just "money" or "family," yours might include "Be a positive role model for my son" or "Find time to read more" or "Do more adventuresome travel with my family."  And be sure to look for meaning markers in all areas of you life, not just a few corners.

Noise-check your life.  Check to see if information coming in meets the criteria of noise:  unusable, untimely, hypothetical, or distracting.  If so, eliminate it.

Give yourself a head start.  Design your goals with some progress already worked in.  For example, if yo have just started exercising and you wan tot continue it by making it a habit chart, design the exercise checkoff list wiht several days already checked off instead of starting at day 1.

Make your goals visible.   Create a realistic and meaningful digital slideshow or wall in your office wiht pictures or words representing goals you would like to accomplish.  Remember, thes goals must be (1) realistic, (2) meaningful, and (3) possible in the near future.

Book: Shawn Achor, Before Happiness;  The 5 Hidden Keys to Achieving Success, Spreading Happiness, and Sustaining Positive Change (New York, Crown Business 2013).

Literary references in Stanley Kurbick's "Paths of Glory"

Two literary references caught my attention in the film "Paths of Glory" directed by Stanley Kubrick (1957).

Quote by Samuel Johnson that underscores many aspects of the film:
"Patriotism is the last refuge of a scoundrel."


Except from "Elegy Written in a Country Churchyard" by Thomas Gray which contains the films title:

Let not Ambition mock their useful toil,

         Their homely joys, and destiny obscure;

Nor Grandeur hear with a disdainful smile

         The short and simple annals of the poor.

The boast of heraldry, the pomp of pow'r,

         And all that beauty, all that wealth e'er gave,

Awaits alike th' inevitable hour.

         The paths of glory lead but to the grave.

Link to poem by Thomas Gray:  http://www.poetryfoundation.org/poem/173564

Yo-Yo Ma on Vulnerability and Asking Questions; On Being

In her radio program, "On Being," Krista Tippett interviewed Yo-Yo Ma.  At one point, the discussion covered the role of the musician in larger social challenges.  Ma discussed the challenge of approaching these problems.

"Once you ask the question, you already put yourself in a position of slight vulnerability because you don't know the answer.  And I think that by doing that, you can actually begin to see where the solutions may lie  At least you start to open yourself to someone else who might propose the solution that might start to lead us in a certain position."

Link to the interview:  http://www.onbeing.org/program/yo-yo-ma-music-happens-between-the-notes/6641
(Quote occurs around 31 minutes into the broadcast interview.)

Creating motivational quote images using Brainy Quote

Often for motivational reasons, you want to use a famous quote. The website Brainy Quote (www.brainyquote.com) provides a large number of great quotes. An useful feature that the website also provide is a function to put the quote and author on an image.

On the Brainy Quote website, select an specific quote.  One option for social media sharing should be "Share As Image".  Clicking on this will take you to a feature where you can customize the image and the text.

You should be able to right click on the image on save to a file.  

You can print and post the quotes at work or at home.  You can include them in a PowerPoint presentations.  One suggestion by Shawn Achor in his book Before Happiness is to use such images in your screen saver as a digital "vision board."

John Maxwell on Successful Thinking

A few quotes from How Successful People Think by John C. Maxwell (New York, Center Street Publishing, 2009).

"No matter what you're trying to accomplish, you can do it better with shared thinking."

"Get used to being uncomfortable,"

"The better the questions, the more gold you will mine from your thinking."

"One of the best ways to cultivate a possibility mind-set is to prompt yourself to dream one size bigger than you normally do."

"Instead of asking how, they should first ask why.  If you jump right into problem solving mode, how are you going to know all the issues?"